Maurice Sendak, RIP
Once a little boy sent me a charming card with a little drawing on it. I loved it. I answer all my children’s letters — sometimes very hastily — but this one I lingered over. I sent him a card and I drew a picture of a Wild Thing on it. I wrote, “Dear Jim: I loved your card.” Then I got a letter back from his mother and she said, “Jim loved your card so much he ate it.” That to me was one of the highest compliments I’ve ever received. He didn’t care that it was an original Maurice Sendak drawing or anything. He saw it, he loved it, he ate it.
― Maurice Sendak
When my girls were young, I would read “Where the Wild Things Are” to them every night. It never got old. It never got tired. There is an openness to it that makes it timeless and ageless. Mr. Sendak didn’t believe in childhood. He believed in human beings.
I said anything I wanted because I don’t believe in children I don’t believe in childhood. I don’t believe that there’s a demarcation. ‘Oh you mustn’t tell them that. You mustn’t tell them that.’ You tell them anything you want. Just tell them if it’s true. If it’s true you tell them.
― Maurice Sendak
I am overcome with nostalgia and sweet melancholy. I remember being a young mother with babes. It was the most profound time of my life. That is, until this year. Both of my babes have or are having their own little ones. And I will most definitely read “Where the Wild Things Are” to my beautiful grandsons.
Here is a video from Bill Moyers interviewing Maurice Sendak.
Rest in Peace and Thank You, Mr. Sendak.
Please don’t go. We’ll eat you up. We love you so.
― Maurice Sendak, Where the Wild Things Are
Here is a video from Bill Moyers interviewing Maurice Sendak:




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Nice, Mary. Sendak turned an unspeakably sad childhood into wonders for other children.
I love the story about the little boy who ate the card because he loved it.
No kids myself, but have usually gotten along pretty well with those I’ve been around; I think because I do try to be honest and direct with them. I’m appalled by parents who think protecting their kids from everything that might distress them is the way to raise healthy people.
Sendak showed how wrong that is. RIP.
tweeted and recommended with thanks mary
Thanks for this, Mary!
More on Maurice Sendak is here.
Oh, and here’s Colbert’s tribute
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/05/08/stephen-colbert-remembers-maurice-sendak_n_1500246.html
Nice write up Mary, highly rcc’d.
Thanks for the link. omg I am grieving. I saw him and Dr. Seuss together in a talk at San Diego’s Balboa Park back in… must have been the ’80s. What blessings.
Here is one bit of his that is rarely mentioned: It was the opening to the 1970s PBS Christmas animation special Simple Gifts that sadly isn’t shown anymore. Included here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2tbVaDqHXA
It seems so charming to me now, but I remember just bawling when I first saw it. He had a way to find … something wonderful in something terrible. (Words?)
Lovely, Mary. Oh to have more truth tellers in our world!
I printed this out and ate it, Mary.
*gigglin’*
Laughing!
Blessings and thanks, Mary. Great to hear from you!
Hope all is well with you and hubby.
Martha
We are good! Going to see the grandbaby tomorrow. Goodie. He isn’t old enough for Maurice yet.
Recently took all my vinyls to store in town that either sells them or trashes them. Discovered this one from the way-back-machine. Talk about nostalgia.
I’m a bit too old to have read Sendak as a child (Where The Wild Things Are was published the year I was graduated from high school), so I missed out on part of the magic. To read him after childhood has got to put a veil of “adulthood” between you and the wonder. I’ve always felt a bit cheated by that, but I had Kipling’s “The Just So Stories” and other classics when I was a wee one. Mr. Sendak is in a truly special place in heaven — where they gather the folks who have made children happy. RIP.
I loved this book as a child, in fact I still have it tucked away in the bookshelf.
I bought my little nephew some of the WTWTA monster stuffed toys, but he took one look and got scared. Oh well, give him another year I suppose.
It speaks well of you that you posted this. Highly recc’d.
Heh. One of the few advantages of having a child is getting to read to him/her all the stuff you missed in your own childhood. As you & I are the same age (+or-) we were too old when Sendak came in, but I read Sendak to my son.
I made wolf suits for my girls one Halloween. They were embarrassed but agreed to wear them. oh, the trauma.
Interesting post Senator. Have to read of his work never heard of him.
Senator !! Front Paged W00T!!
Hey grandma how’s things going??
We are going to see the baby tomorrow in Sonoma. The proud parents are visiting from Vegas. My daughter is looking for work so they can return to the bay area. My oldest is pregnant. Another boy! It is overwhelming and wonderful.
You kinda hada be there. Got a stuffed wild thing for my son when he was little. He never really glommed on for my son, though I gather from a niece, who teaches 3 year olds, that Sendak was quite the rage.
Oh my! My recently deceased mother used to sing this to me all the time. Crying a bit.
As a child, that is … sorry.
Looks like I killed this thread, and I’m sorry. We all loved MS books, he was a master of imagination. From young years to my own children, we admired him so much. Hey Senator, thanks!
Sendak, a wonderful story teller and great person.
The world is a much smaller place now.
Jimmy Fallon!
Jimmy has the best suits, ever.
I love Jimmy Fallon.
Goodnight Mary.
Mary, Front Paged, Mother Ship.
I love you, yours, and this town.
Nice.
*G*
Dave van Ronk covered this, as only he can do.
This version is not the best I’ve ever heard, but all I could find.
Not The Best.
Ronk coverd that song on his ‘Aging Children Come’ which I have on vinyl, his version there of Teddy Bear’s Picnic is slower and LOTS more meaningful, wish I could find a sample of that one.
LeSIgh, RIP Dave van Ronk, and teddy bears everywhere.
This is late. But for Whoever…Terry Gross had a wonderful interview with Sendak; it was last Sept. A bit was replayed yesterday, so Im assuming you can find it on NPR. Really thoughtful.