Saving one animal won’t change the world but it will change the world for that animal.
Namaste
Not a good week at Chez Tigre.
In early August 2009 I took in a little female tortie and a male gray kitteh with white toes. Kismet was 17 and Toes was 12. Their original names were Maude and Brutus. I couldn’t stand the names. Kismet was easy. Toes on the other hand didn’t come as easily. Kismet never responded to Maude and Toes never responded to Brutus. Kismet was affectionate and thrived on affection. Toes was reclusive, spending most of his time in some out ot the way place where the others wouldn’t bother him. I kept trying to come up with a name for him but wasn’t getting anywhere. One night, sitting on the edge of the bed I was looking at him and said to him , “Well, until I can come up with a better name I’m just gonna call you Toes cuz of your cute little white toe tips.” He immediately responded to the name so it stuck. Kismet schmoozed with all the other cats and loved other two-leggeds. Toes remained reclusive. After he’d been here a little over a year Toes started to come out of his shell. Not a lot but anything was better than nothing. He started hanging out in the kitchen when I was getting ready to feed them all. He loved to talk, a little one syllable meow that I could easily imitate. He didn’t like being held and definitely wasn’t a lap kitteh. He did like me to sit on the floor so he could do that cat thing and walk around me, rubbing up against me and we chatted back and forth. A few months ago he started a habit of greeting me every morning when I swung my legs over the side of the bed. He’d head butt my legs, rub up against them while I scritched his ears and we talked. He repeated the process at night. I was seeing him begin to really socialize and wondered what I’d see after another year or so.
I noticed last week that Toes wasn’t eating well and was losing a lot of weight. Monday I took him in, thinking we were dealing with some age related thing and I would once again be on the pills forever routine. No big deal. Dr examined him for a while and listened to his chest for a long time. Examined more of him and went back and listened to his chest for another extended period and said he wanted to do some xrays. He came back in with a number of films and put one up on the viewer, a full body (neck to tail base) top view, saying, “These are the lungs of a healthy cat.” I knew we were in trouble. Right and left side views of the healthy cat. He then put up the full body top view for Toes. Both lungs covered with tumors. In the left side view his heart was barely visible through the tumors. I’m now numb and in a tailspin. The cancer hadn’t started to spread out from the lungs yet but that was right around the corner. The wasting process, eg, rapid weight loss, had already begun. We were out of options. I had to let him go.
Rest In Peace, Toes.
I’ll see ya at the Bridge. You were special and I really love ya.
Toes (1997 – 23 Jul 2012)




32 Comments

Very very sorry to hear this, and our deepest sympathy goes to you and Toes.
Sad loss for you and I’m so sorry. Toes will be remembered.
Oh, (((Dragon)))), ((((Toes))))). So sorry. Peace.
The final responsability of a pet lover is never easy.
My deepest synmpathies.
Boxturtle (No snide remark available for situtations like this)
So sorry to hear this. I hate these kind of days and they are inevitable for all us cat people. It sounds like Toes was very happy and content during his last months and obviously he was loved very much.
Oh, sweet dragon, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Sweet Toes, Rest in Eternal Peace and wait at the Rainbow bridge for your human.
This is such a sad, sad, unexpected death. Ooof.
Death sucks.
Sorry to hear this Dragon (((((Toes)))))
On a bit of good news, when I arrived in Ruskin this afternoon, Dan’l gave me a bit of attitude and wouldn’t come to me in the landlady’s residence – but he did relent after a bit and wound up lying down between my feet.
He’s going to stay downstairs tonight so that I know I can find him in the morning, put him in the carrier and hit the road back to NH.
SD, my thoughts are with you and Toes.
DW
I’m glad you didn’t wait until Sunday to tell his story. I think it helps the grieving process, and your friends want to be there for you. Now we can keep both of you in our thoughts and hearts.
(((SD))) and (((Toes)))
Om
I’m sorry to hear this SouthernDragon. Mr. Toes, may you rest in peace. What a lovely picture, kitty on a soft sweater on the coffee table. Poor baby. BTW, my laptop is on an ottoman, and Max kitty climbed up his step box to ottoman to do a circle next to the laptop right as I was trying to think what to type here. Then he got down so I believe he was conveying sympathy too.
So sorry, SD. :-(
Goodbye, beautiful Toes.
Awww – so very sorry to hear this. :(
May Toes find eternal peace and many mice in those glorious “Happy Hunting Grounds”.
SD, I am so sorry. That bridge is getting too crowded, but it will surely be a loving place. You were such a help to me. And I am so glad Toes got to the dr, so the ache would not drag on. Peace & hugs.
We love here and mourn with your loss.
I have tears in my eyes, SD. It is so hard to lose a kitteh you’ve coaxed and loved and socialized. Especially hard to decide to put him down to spare him suffering.
(((SouthernDragon)))
Oh Richard! I’m so very sorry for your loss. You did the right thing though. Why put him through all that? Thinking about you.
A beautiful eulogy for Toes, SD. Love is lovely.
I suspected bad news seeing the post title. Take care of the rest of the family you have there. I know those critters read our moods and feelings.
Take care.
So sorry SD.
Oh I am so very sorry. That is so very hard.
(((Southern Dragon))). I’m close to crying. Kitty Heaven just became an even better place.
I liked the mention of an older cat and was moved with his passing. I know how difficult it is to lose a pet. Perhaps Toes and Silki are playing with each other now until we can join them later at the Rainbow Bridge.
So sorry to hear of your loss.
SD, tears here. I am so sorry. A lovely photo, and a lovely tribute.
It’s never easy to lose a kitty, but you made the best choice for him, although I’m sure it was hell for you.
SD, I’m sorry to hear of the loss of your kitty friend. Rest In Peace, Toes.
Brotherman,
So sorry for your loss.
{{{SoDrag}}}
Rest In Peace Toes
Oh, SD, I am so very sorry. Toes was a beauty, don’t recall seeing a photo of him before.
I have to say that Maybelline’s behavior changed in the few months before she died of some kind of sarcoma in her lungs, she came inside willingly and went back to sleeping on my pillow or nearby after years of running and hiding from the other cats.
I guess they know in their way that it is time to be near and get love.
I am so very sad, it is one week today since Blanca’s death. The grief is present, and I send you hugs and love for your loss today. Take care, we love them as much as we can for as long as we can.
I’m truly sorry.
Thank you all for you kind words.
Hi Southern Dragon, I’m so sorry to hear about Toes. He was a beautiful kitty, and it is a very charming photo. Your weekly photo essay, Caturday, provides a lot of enjoyment for us. My husband and I love looking at the photos of the kitties and reading about their antics. We had to put our cat, Rascal, to sleep a few years ago. It was very difficult. But we knew that, given her medical problems and her age, it was the right thing to do. If she could’ve spoken, that’s what she would’ve wanted.
sorry big guy,didnt want to click,they are so hard to say goodbye to,
loving little sprites…..go get another when time permits,as many as we can save brother
Goodnight, Toes, and fare thee well. Best to you, too, SD. You wouldn’t have it any other way than feeling such pain at his loss; it’s a direct measure of your common bond.