Leave it to the Aussies to come up with the ad that LGBT activists have clamored for throughout all our fights with the fundie-bangelicals over our basic human right to marriage equality. Every time our own USA organizations launch a marriage equality advertising campaign, their ads focus on straight allies, supportive relatives of LGBT couples, or members of the political class: hardly ever do we see affected couples.
This was the strength at the heart of the plaintiffs’ argument in the Prop 8 federal case: in Judge Vaughn Walker’s courtroom, we got to know the two couples as if they were neighbors or work mates. And America learned they are just like everyone else.
This ad takes a novel approach: the camera is on only one member of the couple in a budding (and then committed) relationship until the very last frame. We see them meet, date, grow together, live life precious and mundane, then visit family and — finally — propose. It could be any couple; it could be a diamond ad, a travel commercial, it could be selling insurance. Try to imagine how this ad, or one like it, might play on the American airwaves, especially for viewers who don’t know how it turns out or even what it’s for.
Would it catch your attention? Would it change minds? Would it engage voters on the fence?
Oh — and would you like a tissue?



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So adorbs.
AWESOME AD Teddy!!!!
Thanks for sharing that.
Man I’d love to see that play over our airwaves right around the holidays.
Yes, tissue please. Happy tears.
I was caught unawares, so I decided the video needed an advisory. It’s so real, so human, so right.
Not featuring the affected couples has been a big problem in our campaigns. It’s an insult to have our rights voted on at all; not showing us in the ads adds injury to the insult, as on-the-fence voters are otherwise bombarded with misleading and deceptive advertising about children being taught homosexuality in schools.
Seeing an ad the moves beyond “showing the couple themselves” into “I am camera” mode for one member of the couple — just spectacular.
Me too.
Especially the holiday that is Election Day next year in North Carolina and Minnesota, two states that I know have amendments on the ballot.
yes, fantastic approach!
Make it viral…
And another powerful aspect is that the viewer forms an emotional bond with the young man. S/he feels the joy, anger, pain that he feels and becomes emotionally invested in his well being and happiness.
When it is revealed at the end of the ad that the other member of the couple is male, I think even if there is a momentary hesitation or feeling of prejudice, it is quickly swept away by the more powerful desire to see two people who are so obviously committed to each other be married.
I think this ad will change some minds. Thank you for posting it, Teddy. Highly recommended.
Great commercial and great post.
Teddy, I’m with you. But I doubt the plains monkeys and their runnings dogs get it.
Yes. I want a tissue. I watched this, found it on youtube, shared the link on my facebook, and I’m still weeping like a little kid.
Beautiful.
There’s not enough love in the world. Why are we still trying to stifle same-sex marriage? Makes me hate our political system and the bigotry that still exists in this country.
fantastic ad teddy — tweeted, recommended and can ya hand me one of those tissues please
its about time
It’s a great film. But, at two minutes in length, it’s too long for a TV commercial.
Holy shit that’s great!
Thx Teddy
I’m a crabby cynical old straight man of 74, and I’m sitting here finding it hard to see what I’m typing because of the tears in my eyes. The joy, the sheer happiness of this young man in love makes the strongest emotional case yet for equality in love and marriage. I wish I knew this kid; I’m sure I’d like him a lot.
Great ad. It would never work here in the “Heartland”. But I loved it.
27 years, still no wedding. I would say I’m used to it, but it still pisses me off.
Pitch perfect. wonderful.
It’s a two minute spot!
Americans couldn’t pay attention all the way through a two-minute spot if their lives depended on it. Show this in the US and it will just convince people that marriage equality is just another elitist project.
It’d work just fine edited to 60 seconds I think. Excellent.
trying to humanize people to indecent monsters is a waste of time. The gay rights issue in the US should be fought on equality grounds only, i.e., anything the government offers to any citizen it must offer to all citizens.
Churches as private organizations have a right to discriminate (although they should forfeit their tax-free status when they do).
But the government, which is the bestower of marriage rights that matter under the law, not churches, is prevented by law from discriminating.
Every major legal advance for equality was made possible by getting a critical mass of support for it. I think this ad does an excellent job of showing people as people — who fight, worry, love, act silly, mourn their loved ones, celebrate with those who live, and make new friends together.